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  • While cleaning out some old documents today, I came across the above item – and had a good laugh for myself. On the day after New Year’s Day 2009, (only weeks after the attack), I returned from a work event in…

  • It’s been an extended vacation due to the NYC snowpocalypse and the trojan horse computer snafu. I look forward soon to knocking off the rest of my self-defense Q+A with Dr. Ruthless (she’s awesome) and getting into a bunch more topics.…

  • As 2010 winds down, and we get all sorts of reflective and mushy about what we’d like to do differently in 2011, I want to toss an idea at you for pondering. In March of this year, I began to…

  • As I sit here, reviewing my credit card statements as the final push into the holiday season wraps up, I cannot help but remember what this was like for me the past two Christmases. Christmas ’08 and ’09 had me…

  • For anyone who has read this blog regularly, you will know that I post every day. I pride myself on that. I don’t want to bore you in a world of ever-shortening attention spans. But then a trojan horse named…

  • Dubbed the “Subway Badass”, video of Nicola Briggs lambasting a man who rubbed his condom-clad erection against her on a New York City subway, was captured on an iPhone and became an Internet sensation. Nicole gave this guy a public shaming of grand proportions.…

  • I had the distinct pleasure of speaking with Melissa Soalt a.k.a. Dr. Ruthless (Facebook | Dr. Ruthless), a former psychotherapist-turned-self-defense expert. Her website is a MUST READ for anyone reading my blog. My Marie Claire article was what brought our…

  • Had some “technical difficulties” with my computer. Working hard to get it fixed because I am SO READY to talk self-defense. Fingers crossed.

  • Tomorrow, I will begin a series of posts on the merits of learning self-defense skills through the lens of what I experienced during the attack. A very special lady and expert in this field has shared some of her knowledge…

  • Right around the time I began my foray into researching the Italian judicial process, that rapscallion of a Prime Minister, Italy’s Silvio Berlusconi, was making headlines of his own, about rape: “Silvio Berlusconi criticised for ‘pretty girl’ rape comment …” – http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/italy/4339817/Silvio-Berlusconi-criticised-for-pretty-girl-rape-comment.html Berlusconi’s rape…